How to handle a Blind Date
Do not enrage yourself after you have been set up on blind date by your friend or relatives. Just consider this as a sign that you have been a bachelor too long and as original consent.
It doesn’t worth reserving a table in a French restaurant with sophisticated meals and eat alone. Remember that people will not notice if you are dating wt\with unknown person. Well, dating is done to know more about this so-called unknown person.
First, this date should not be a stress for you, take it easy and consider as a night with your friend. Keep in mind that a person you meet may not be the best husband or wife for you. This will reduce your disappointment if it appears that someone you meet is not such kind of person as you expected. Before date you have to prepare and plan several things. First of all think about how to begin, watch activities and where to do, think of what to say and do if all is fine and if it is not.
Introducing yourself as friend or relative of matchmaker for the first time is good idea. You can continue with asking which activities he or she prefers and prepare several suggestions. You can ask her to play pool table, in case she can not play, what is wonderful; this gives you an opportunity to suggest a lesson. You can do a lot of things that make you fill comfortable with each other. Whether you want to ask a question, they must not be intimate.
You should start evaluating how much potential a date has. When you feel that a woman you meet with may be your soul mate, then, anyway give her a red-carpet treatment. If only someone insists on your meeting with someone you don’t like, you must do the meeting as painless as possible to you.
The person you met should live near you. When two persons meet casually where they agreed, that is good. Arranging a hit and run date is easy for persons leaving or working close to each other, but it is also important in deciding when and where to meet. The best places are coffee joint and low-key dive. You can invite him or her to a coffee after lunch or to a drink before dinner.
But be flexible. If you and your date hit it off, you can stay together for the rest of day or have a dinner together.
If you like your date, ask her if she also does. If she did, wish to have a date next week. Tell that you will call her. But in case date goes not gone well, tell you had a great time with her, don’t be rude.
If it goes as bad as you was afraid, you can tell your date you must go as you have a lot of to do after short talk. Don’t be afraid of this, he or she may have the same filling. That you just separate.